화상영어 질문에 대답하기 (영어 장문 주의)

*화상영어-6_2025.06.27.금_with Mariz

 

 

1. When you hear the word maturity, what comes into your mind?

 

I feel like I need to be perfect.

 

behind but do whatever is asked for you to do. So that is being responsible

to your mistakes okay so you know we are not perfect people nobody's perfect in this world so therefore we also make mistakes and if we are responsible enough we take our own mistakes we accept our own mistakes I mean and after accepting our own mistakes we do something about it we have to correct it

So, we take all the responsibility because we are grown-ups, we are mature

 

2. How do you manage your emotions when you are mature?

Hold back , Bear

When we are mature, we do not show our emotions right away

You have to balance everything and think it over a hundred times before you react to the situation, okay?

to control and see to it that you act appropriately with every situation so that is a mature person.

with the people around you, the time you spend with them, be it your co-workers, be it your friends, be it with your family, and be it with your partner.

And you are saying that more hours is spent with your co-workers because you are eight hours in your workplace. So you spend more hours with them. And then when you go home, you have less hours with your family and with your husband. But nevertheless, the time that you spend with your family is more of quality. Even if it's a few hours, then your co-workers, when you are at work, it's still quality. And how do you make it a point that it is a quality time?

 

in contact with them because some other women even if with their family they still are on their phones okay talking to someone or they are still bringing home the things that they have to do in their office they bring it home so no more time for no more quality time for the husband and the kids okay so better if even if there are less time for these relationships you have to make it a quality time you have to give them the time yeah

Sure, we also have to take care of ourselves, right? Yes. When we were a child, we don't care about self-care. We just want to play all the time, and sometimes we don't even want to take a bath because we are still busy playing. But if you are a mature person, you also do things for yourself, physical and mental. Yes.

For your mental health, you have to deal with your friends and find relaxation from them. It's a break. It's a break from working at an office, working for the kids, and for your husband at home. It's a break when you give also time to mingle with your friends and enjoy bonding with them. So that is good for mental health. You are right.

It will help you. It is an opportunity to you to improve on your communication skills and that is good for mental health. It will give you a lot of opportunity if you are good in speaking English, in communicating in English. More opportunities will come your way.

could help us improve ourselves, okay, physically too, of course, we take care of our skin. Why do Korean women have good skin?

And we want our skin to be like yours.

Forget to take care of your body, of yourself, because that is what a mature woman can do for your self-improvement.

their opinions, their viewpoints, and then...

points because it's not always us who are correct. They may be correct too, okay, and it will build a better relationship even with your husband, okay. It is not always your opinion that counts. We could also, we should also listen to his, to their opinion, our husbands. We let them talk and listen and sometimes we submit, you know what, submit. Sometimes we just say yes because we think that we have to respect his opinions.

Not all the time. It should be balanced. You should also listen to your own opinions and viewpoints. So, he also should learn empathy. He should also empathize. That will build a healthy relationship. Being a mature person, we have to know how to empathize or empathy. We should have empathy.

 

3. What about decision-making? In decision-making, how do you go about your decision-making?

Already listen to the other opinions, and then you voice out your opinion, and then you talk about it, and then later you will decide on what is the best for a particular situation

We have to accept that not all our opinions are suitable to different situations. So, we should also accept other opinions and come up with the best opinion. And it's only through communication, proper communication, that you end up into a good and final decision. So, in your marriage life, what can you tell about decisions that you have been making?

Good relationship starts with good communication. So, then again, we have to open up. Don't hide anything. If you think it's not good for you, then you voice it out. You tell him how you feel. You tell him his opinion, and then vice versa. He will also tell his opinion, and then later you will come up to what is the best for every situation. And yes,

 

So, that is why your husband believes in you. Ah, yes. I think, I think so. You, yeah. So, that is, you are lucky to have that kind of relationship and lucky also to have that kind of man with you together.

Some women say there's no forever. But I think it's just a matter of understanding. And also our choice, of course. We have to have a good choice

When you love your husband and you choose your husband to be your partner, your permanent partner in life, okay?

What do you understand by accepting limitations?

Okay, so we're not perfect, nobody is perfect in this world. So we also have limitations. Even your husband, he has also his own limitations. So it is if we are mature enough, we accept our weaknesses and we do something about it. Maybe sometimes if you cannot do things by your own, you should accept that you need help from others. Okay

do everything, because we're not perfect. So don't think that you are perfect. Even your husband is not perfect. So he should also accept his limitations. And do something. And maybe ask help from someone. Maybe the two of you could help each other to conquer the limitations of each other.

All of us do mistakes. Okay? So, if we do mistakes, we have to learn from it. Okay? We don't ignore the mistakes, or sometimes you don't accept your mistake. You say, no, I did not do it. But, it's wrong. You have to accept your mistake. If you did something wrong, then be apologetic. You apologize. Oh, I'm sorry. I did some mistakes. And, I think I should learn from my mistake. And, I will not repeat it again because I know that it's a mistake. It's wrong to do it. And, learning from it is not repeating the same mistake over and over again. Okay.

with your friends, with your family, with your husband, with your kids. They do small things for you.

Well, that is why they do these little things. Often times, little things are neglected. Ah, yes.

I had a class very, very early, and all of a sudden, in the middle of my class, the door opened, and he just did like this to my shoulder, and then I looked at him, and he was bringing my breakfast. He brought me breakfast up here in my room, and I was very appreciative. It's a small thing, little things, but it means a lot, so you have to appreciate, okay? And sometimes, he does this for you, and maybe sometimes, if it's your turn, you have to do it for him.

He cover the blanket

Don't be that in love, it's enough that he does little things, even my kids, maybe, your kids, or your friends, your friends, okay? I think so. Maybe, yeah, going to your house and just bringing some stuff for you, okay? Just to greet you, or bringing, giving you fruits, giving you food, it's enough to show that you are important to your friend. So, those are little things. Are you doing that too? Oh, yeah.

Knowing when to seek support. You are not afraid to reach out for friends or family or professional for guidance whenever needed. So if you think that things are coming up to you and you can't bear it anymore, don't hesitate to seek help from trusted friends, from even your husband. If there is something that's bothering you, don't hesitate to tell him, open up to him, and ask for his help. It will make you comfortable.

We are going to do that and I will present to you some PPT work for that, from textbooks. We will do that so that everything as a whole will be improved. Yes, that's it. Thank you.